Tired – 20th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

TLJ: i’m soo tired today.

S: Me too – I can’t believe I got up this morning or that I got into work so early. I killed a big ugly cockie this morning too – it was disgusting!

TLJ: I even dozed off on the train which i haven’t done in a while. Anyway, just finished my salad roll – yum, and i brought some fruit salad along – but i want to eat it all now. I’m hoping we go to morning tea even thought the two main morning tea people aren’t here to round us all up.

S: I’ve got a whole pack of Tim Tams on my desk – looks like I’ll be getting PHAT today!

TLJ: I’ve been asked to look up why the #include statement that we put in our code isn’t being read by browsers. They want me to replace it with standard code. What this #include statement does, and what we are trying to do, is automatically call this file (which adds the border and title) onto the page. This is so if the border or title changes, you don’t have to change all he code in many pages, just the file. Get what i mean?

S: Erm…..I’m looking on TechNet for you today so expect some emails…..

TLJ: Anyway, had fun last night.

S: Me too – it was great to hang out and do such a nice thing with you….I really appreciate the effort you went to yesterday as well. You are very special.

TLJ: Came home and N_, S_ and J_ had gone to see Shakespeare in Love (N_ and J_ have seen it already).

S: You should go to see it with your friends – school friends maybe. (Or go with Y_!)

TLJ: I don’t feel like working.

S: Haha! Everyday is like this I reckon!

TLJ: Email me, tlj

S: Sweety? – Love ya!

Peaches – 19th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

S: How was lunch? Are you tennising tonight? How are you getting home?

TLJ:Yes i’m tennising tonight – don’t know how i’m getting home – got any ideas??

S: Well, I know how you can get home from the station……

TLJ: Just got an email from Y_ – the CCA touch footy team urgently need players tonight at 8:30 – but i’m playing tennis so i don’t think i’ll be there on time.

S: Sports Girl!

TLJ: R_’s having a bbq for M_ on fri night for her b’day – i’d really like to see them both again (haven’t seen them in ages), but the circus is on that night – what do i do??????????????

S: Go the Birthday party and give me the ticket for the circus…

TLJ: and i have to spend more money on a bday present for her.

S: whether you go or not?

TLJ: my wrists are sore

S: Hmm….mine too.

TLJ: Love ya babes!

S: It’s me it’s me it’s Shaun

Re: FW: Dreamweaver – 18th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

TLJ: wanted you to get this right away – accidentally sent it to kabuki a/c. Sorry.

S: Yep – sounds cool. I think Troy and Bronwyn might come up on Sunday morning

TLJ: WHY are they coming Sunday morning??

S: to look at the video equipment, teach me some HTML and to spin some disks – oh and to make some picnic food? I don’t know if it will be morning or not – haven’t figured anything out yet. so we could all head down from here whenever you want – maybe we could ALL make stuff for a picnic?

TLJ: Well, i can’t cook, or make sandwiches or anything – can I come round to your place Sunday morning then, we could go shopping and make pasta salad or something – hang on, Sunday morning’s when troy and bronwyn may be coming round, so you’ll have to go shopping and cook the night before, and unfortunately, i will be at dinner with yuri. Sorry.

S: No – we could do all that and more – and now you’ve committed to it that is what we are going to do!

TLJ: I’m really shitty today, cause S_ let me choose between a dress and skirt from Thailand, and i chose this silly skirt instead of the groovy dress and N_ got the really cool dress – plus she got the nicer sarong. I don’t know what came over me, so i’m really pissed off at myself.

S: You’ll wear each others clothes anyway – what does it matter. I’m sorry you chose the wrong one though. You ALWAYS do that!!!!

TLJ: i’m really sorry about your car – you’re pretty silly – how bad was the damage?????????????

S: Probably a couple a hundred bucks – I dunno. It’s not major or anything but I should get it fixed when I get it serviced next which should be in about eight weeks or so.

TLJ: And how cool if you go to houston texas – i really hope you get to go – it’s full of racist rednecks – S_ went there for work 5 years ago.

S: I was waiting for you to say that I would fit right in there! But I’m glad you didn’t.
Thanks again for a great night last night – I had a lot of fun sweety. Hey, you know how I said I was up all Sunday night with stomach problems – well, I actually was up last night with stomach problems – must have been all that food swilling in with that Coke!
Love ya babes Shaun

TLJ: I’m really upset right now – C_ “misplaced” her camera with my film in it – it’s my film from the farewell party – i took all these photos with the really cool people on tour. It’s got all my personal photos on it, so i’m really shitty.

S: Why has she got it??? why didn’t you get it off her before???? Baabbbeeee…..

TLJ: anyway, right now looking at Home Site – i think i like it better than dreamweaver (the help is better for a start), but its interface is much more cluttered. I haven’t started using it yet though.

S: Cool – did Bronwyn give you any help on ones to try out? Are you going to get credit for your work?

TLJ: mail me, i’m bored. Coming for lunch with me?

S: I’ll be there in spirit…..if that’s any good to ya!?

TLJ: Forgot to tell you – think i figured out what went wrong with the exclude filters – It’s the way you define the filters – like whether you have one exclude filter for excluding files AND IP addresses, or 2 – 1 to exclude files, one to exclude IP addresses. Having a filter with several elements (all files) works as AND, while defining separate filters with one element works as OR. But if you define different elements in the exclude, this only excludes say the defined files from the defined IP addresses – rather than all the files and all the IP addresses. It’s extremely confusing.
I also solved the mapping probs by using UNCs.

TLJ: Also just remembered – we’ve got a trial evacuation – 9-10am – cool huh?
Walking to work today – i guess you heard about the siege at the greek embassy – anyway, there were heaps of fire engines, ambulances and police cars – they’ve blocked off castlereagh street i think. There was a bit of a crowd there – i was wondering what was going on. I heard there was a protest at the greek embassy – i thought it was in england!!!!

S: You are right about my money situation you know – thanks for talking about it last night. If I can get these bills out of the way which probably won’t be until April then I’ll start putting some extra by. You gotta remind of this when I say let’s go out and do such and such! we’ll go and do cheap things

TLJ: I did not say anything about not spending money on me! I said stop spending money on crap things you don’t need like food and comics. Where’d you get the idea I was talking about us?????????????????????? I think i’d better have another talk to you…………………

S: Yes – I think I need a good talking to! Come and sort me out sweety!
you can go do expensive things with yr other boyfriends! So – how about a movie night at my place?

TLJ: I really think you should just keep a track of where your money is going – and whether all that spending is necessary – and maybe limit your spending on certain things each fortnight. You can spend less some weeks, and make up for it other weeks – and eventually things will even out, and you can save more or less some weeks, but it will average out and you will have saved a set amount of money – then you can spend some on unexpected occurences (like my birthday………………………..).

S: I would take all your advice seriously if you were in control of your own finances!
No, actually I will restrict myself on certain things for a while……

TLJ: I’ll help you babes, ok?

S: Yeah – thanks my friend! How’s you day? I’m busy today – it’s not fair!

Look! – 17th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

TLJ: Thanks for the html stuff babes.

S: Hosemobile weren’t playing last night in the end! Drum fucked up the dates.
TLJ: So when are they playing – sat and sun? and with the same bands??? same venues??

S: They’re playing tonight at the Iron Duke and Sunday at the Globe. I’ll probably go to the Globe on Sunday. Not sure who’s supporting – it just says Special Guests.
Luckily we found out before going. The girl Craig is practicing with, Bronwyn, was there and her boyfriend Troy. They’ve only been here since Jan 4th – from Virginia, USA.

TLJ: What does the girl do? is she the guitarist/singer – have you heard her? is she good?

S: She plays guitar – it’s just guitar and drums -no bass – sounds interesting. Not sure if she sings – maybe. We could ask them tomorrow.

TLJ: Yuri rang – his birthday dinner is 20th Feb (i hope we haven’t planned anything that day).

S: Are you taking the 19th off?

TLJ: Started to read Kabuki last night but I’d better start from the beginning – so you’ll have to lend me them ok?

S: Did it look good? I’ll lend you them for sure – you know that babes. I know you’ll look after them.

TLJ: Oh, and Laura gets back this morning – so i’m planning on meeting Mich after work – I was supposed to go to see “Shakespeare in love” with school friends, but if laura’s coming over for dinner tonight (her parents are coming), then i’ll skip the movie and see if mich wants to come home with me and laura, mich and I can catch up.

Sound like a good plan?? Sounds like a great plan. I’ll be catching up on some ZZ’s tonight. Hey – I saw fireworks at Darling Harbour last night – was near chinatown – was kinda difficult to see – I was driving past – but may have been to do with CNY.

TLJ: So i probably won’t see you tonight – i thought you may be going to that gig but i guess not.

S: I’ll miss you babes – I wanna pour more water over you!

TLJ: mail me

S: No – oh all right!

TLJ: There was this real dickhead, sleazy guy on the train who thought he was sooo cool, and he was trying to chat up this girl and her friends whom I think he met yesterday (well, that’s what i figured from my eavesdropping – it wasn’t really eavesdropping though, he was speaking so loud, i’m sure he wanted everyone to hear him). He wanted to go out with one of them, but he already knew one of them. He was sooo pathetic – got to tell you all about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

S: Chinese New Year Celebrations sounds like next weekend – I’m not sure. I’ll go down on Saturday anyway. I’m stuffing myself with last nights dinner – it’s delicious – gets better after a day in the fridge! I’m so tired – i can’t wait to go to physio and have a nap!
Love you angel breath

S: I got here at 7.10 and there’s no parking spots and I swiped a barrier and dented my car!!!!
And just as I was writing that – my boss comes and asaks what I’m doing around March 7th for a week – I’m thinking oh shit what’s all this??? Anyway BMC who make the product I work with are offering to pay for me to go and get some training in Houston Texas!!!!!
Oh man………

S: I can’t get that song Crossbone Style out of my head…..AAARRRGGGHHHHH
“I have seen some unbelievable things……”
Man -I’m shitty about my car……but stoked about Houston! You got any money…….?

TLJ: Don’t have any money – but you still got to do some Duty Free shopping ok? Oh yeah – should I get myself a camera? I guess i’ll miss you. Not too many asian girls in houston though. will you cope?? Tracs

S: I’ll miss you like crazy baby!!!! Can you come with me???? I’ll be calling you…..

Pager – 16th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

TLJ: email me baby!!!

S: OK

TLJ: I was just laughing to myself because I was wishing we could spend the whole day together – and knew we’d have so much fun!!!!!!!!!!!

S: Let’s do it – next Friday! You were laughing because you knew we couldn’t……Yes – let’s have more fun anyway.

TLJ: Want to know everything you’ve been doing.

S: Arrived at work 9am, did some work til 11.30. Chatted to you. Did some more work. Went to lunch 12.30. Looked in General Pants. Saw a t-shirt you’d probably like with Jap writing – but it had a pattern on the sleeves which spoiled it. Didn’t have any other Jap shirts. Bought a heat/cool pack for my aching muscles and bones. Now I’m back. want to see you babes. Looking forward to the weekend and Chinese New Year. I want to take HJ on Sunday – can you come for a while? And Monday night? And you can sleep over the following weekend and we’ll go skydiving……
Love to ya angel, hope yr lunch was sweet and you had some R+B gossip. Oh yeah – Janey, the Cantonese girl here – I asked her if she was into R+B, thinking she was bound to be, but she said she’d just bought the Green Day CD. She mentioned a band called the Wallflowers too – you heard of them? She spoilt it all by saying she didn’t mind Maria Carey!!! Hahaha. Love to ya again!

TLJ: Was just talking to Yvette – and they’re rowing on Saturday and Sunday. She was telling me that Chinese Cultural Association are planning all this stuff for new year’s this weekend (I think). She told me she wanted to go, and if i wanted to go, then we should meet up. There are also dragon boat races the 20-21 weekend, but I don’t know if I’ll turn up because my cousin will be there.

S: Don’t you like your cousin???

TLJ: Anyway, if you want to find out what’s happening, I can mail her.

S: Oh no don’t bother – I mean I’ve only been tyring to find out for the last couple of weeks! would you mail her for me sweety? You’d do that for me? What about coming down though on Sunday or Monday night? Don’t you answer emails anymore??? Missyoubabes.

TLJ: The Wallflowers is Jakob Dylan’s (bob’s son) band – he’s a real cutey and i love that name!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

S: Wallflowers, Jakob, Dylan or Bob? And just how cute is he?

TLJ: Anyway, I may be able to make it Sunday if HJ’s there, but probably not monday night – I want my sleep!!

S: Aww…You don’t need sleep!

TLJ: mail me

S: OK

TLJ: – when are you getting home tonight,

S: about 6-6.15 depending on traffic

TLJ: and when are you leaving

S: 7.30

TLJ: – are you having dinner at home

S: Yes

TLJ: – what time does the concert start

S: Don’t know

TLJ: and are you going home straight after or hanging around with Craig?

S: Straight home – I am really tired!

TLJ: Have fun, tlj

S: I will babe (but I will wish you were with me). Good luck with the soccer.

TLJ: ps – I had a really nice chicken satay pizza for lunch and it cost me $1.50!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

S: I haven’t had lunch but I bought an apple which I’m gonna eat soon You have fun too sweetlips

Re: Memory – 15th February 1999

Email with TLJ

TLJ: : ok, so here’s what I think. I think that it is trying to read the files because I specified for it to auto detect the log file format.

S: So, if you turn that function off – is it OK?

TLJ: – once it detects it (say by running a report or if you specify log file format) then it seems ok. Also, if you select auto detect the log file format, then it takes 12 log files (4085Kb), but when i put in the 13th (4537Kb) it started using all the CPU.

S: Any ideas why – is it the number of files or the accumulated size?

TLJ: Proud of my research and troubleshooting skills?

S: Of course – I never doubted you babe. How are the others though – the ones who count.

Pooh – 14th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

S: I went to the library today and picked up some books for HJ. I also checked if they had The Tao of Pooh – the computer said they did but I couldn’t find it on the shelf. When they find it they’ll let me know. I did find though, the Te of Piglet, which is a bit of a coincidence cos on Monday Margaret gave me this print out of a Chinese word and it’s meaning – the word is De (the same word – different dialect/pronunciation). It means virtue and is part of Margaret’s name – Wen De. How’s that for coincidence? Hope your lunch was good and you had fun with your friends…

S: Hope your lunch was good and you had fun with your friends…

TLJ: was a bit shitty cause hari asked how i felt about people dating older men and i went on about all this shit about hating old men dating young women, and as usual, older white men dating young asian women. But then i felt really stupid, cause he was asking about ME dating older men, and I knew mich must have told him about me and you – She tells him EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!

S: Does that mean we are dating then? I thought I was just your regular root?! You know – how you tell me EVERYTHING!!!!!! So are they doing it or what?

TLJ: he was nice apart from that.
upset, tlj

S: Don’t be upset my little angel…come see me….

TLJ: Thanks for the cartoon baby, cheered me up – can’t believe you’re already sending me mail!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (now why don’t you send me flowers????)

S: Well, you know I wanted to send you some on your first day – that’s why I asked you which floor you would be on. Of course, you weren’t too sure and I ran out of money…….but I still have ideas…..

TLJ: When i saw the CSC logo I thought they’d tracked me down and were going to make life hard.

S: What do you mean? Who’s they? Are you having paranoid delusions again….”I’m not paranoid – I know what you’re thinking….”

TLJ: Also, when I read the “watch out for this guy”, I thought it was the sleazy office worker

S: What sleazy office worker……????

TLJ: – every company has one

S: hmm???????????????

TLJ: Anyway, I’m feeling better now. Just remembered I have soccer tonight.

S: GO Team GO!

TLJ: Have a great day, tlj

S: Gets better with the first mail of the day from you…..

Sometimes I do – 13th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

T: > could someone send out an email to all the bits telling them what our group is then…i’m not sure my email got out…our email server is a bit shitty

S: That’s CSC’s mail server by the way (as I’m sure you’re aware of)
the server’s been pretty good recently – you seem to get my mails pretty quick – could be something to do with socs.uts??

T: See, they assume I am in their group

S: What ‘group’ are they talking about?

T: – i haven’t said anything – I hate this – I don’t want to be in ANY group, although sometimes I do.

S: Haha!

T: Anyway, been doing some more Webtrends investigating – CPU usage goes up because it is trying to access the log files – which are about 10-12 mb, and this is using up all the CPU.

S: What size is the CPU, memory, and virtual memory? I wouldn’t have thought that it would spazz as much as you have indicated if the log file is on the same machine.

T : When i changed the name of the log file, and webtrends could no longer find them, CPU usage went down.

S: So – how doesit know which file to look for just when you start it up. You know – I think maybe it’s getting the log file and trying to shove it into cache (what they term the database) and once it’s done CPU may go down. Can you try it with a much smaller log file and see if CPU settles down quickly?

T: Also tried to change the name of the file when CPU usage was 100% (on a hunch) – and just as I had guessed, the folder name couldn’t be changed because it was being accessed!!!!!!!!!!!!

S: You’re smart!

T: How can I fix this dilemma?? Or get around this problem???

S: Do you need to change the filename while WebTrends is accessing it? I think this would indicate that there should be only ONE log file (perhaps per month – so you may have to shut WT down only once a month to rename files). Otherwise you’d have to set up some batch process to end the WT process, rename the file and start WT again (would it know about the new filename -does it pick that up automatically?)

T: Meeting mich and hari for lunch at 1pm.

S: Have fun babes -i want a full gossip report.

Webtrends (again) – 12th February 1999

Email with TLJ:

S: Just a reminder about things to check today. Get the IP addresses and computer names of your machine, chris’s and the machine where you’ve installed WebTrends – oh and the intranet and internet servers would be good too. If you can find out which domains the machines are members of too (just NT), then cool. Also which domains they are actually logged on to. Check all the things that were in my last email. Check the size of the log files, do you still have the old log files you used on your machine – try using them on the one where you just installed WebTrends. Can you take the WT machine off the network? ie pull the cable out and log on locally – this might just rule out the machine doing some extra things on the network that is affecting the CPU. Try uninstalling the version of WT you have on your machine and install it again – see if it works – see if it still works OK on your machine. It does work on NT I guess? When you start Web Trends see which processes start at the same time in Task Manager. Hope you are feeling OK about work today. I’m sorry you had a bad day yesterday – I bet everyone is really nice to you today. Just be confident that you are doing a good job. I believe in you – now, you start believing in you.

TLJ: I’m really upset – I tried to check out that awesome cyber card you sent me, cause i got the email about it on the 3rd feb, which said the cards are kept for 7 days – only now I can’t get it. It can’t find it. Please send me another one.
please?
oh, and i forgot to tell you that dad and kath were on a current affair last night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tell you about it later

Slack – 11th February 1999

Email to TLJ:

Hey babes, thanks for coming out last night. You’re a great person and good fun to be with. I was tired and hungry (and therefore cranky – keep me fed baby!) but felt much better later. The Necks where great – and I’m glad you enjoyed them too – I thought you would. Anyway, if you felt I was being slack to you then I apologise. I don’t wanna be slack to you cos you are a very important person to me and wouldn’t want to do anything to upset our relationship. I hope that you are OK today – not too tired and have a great lunch with Mich and Hairy (or whatever his name was!) What are you doing tonight? Would you like a ride home – if you can make it to Chatswood? Or just from my place? It’s always great to see you, talk and hang out. Love to you angel